I Feel Like I'm Stuck In Ground Hog Day In My Relationship And I Don't Know Which part Is Mine.

April 12, 20261 min read


In this episode Brannon and Tyler talks about feeling stuck in a “Groundhog Day” relationship cycle especially when repeated porn relapse, secrecy, and broken trust keep reopening old wounds and they welcome Tammy back to unpack what’s hers to own, what isn’t, and what real recovery actually requires. Together, they explore boundaries vs. control, the damage of “settling for scraps,” the different levels of recovery, and why an ultimatum can be about self-protection not punishment—when someone won’t take proactive accountability.

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Brannon and Tyler Patrick, collectively known as the Therapy Brothers, are expert clinicians dedicated to helping individuals and couples heal from the devastating impacts of sexual addiction and betrayal trauma. Combining their professional backgrounds as an LCSW and an LMFT, they provide a powerful blend of clinical insight and practical tools through their popular podcasts and collaborative workshops. Their mission centers on breaking the cycle of shame and fostering deep, lasting intimacy by guiding clients toward transparency and emotional resilience.

Brannon & Tyler Patrick

Brannon and Tyler Patrick, collectively known as the Therapy Brothers, are expert clinicians dedicated to helping individuals and couples heal from the devastating impacts of sexual addiction and betrayal trauma. Combining their professional backgrounds as an LCSW and an LMFT, they provide a powerful blend of clinical insight and practical tools through their popular podcasts and collaborative workshops. Their mission centers on breaking the cycle of shame and fostering deep, lasting intimacy by guiding clients toward transparency and emotional resilience.

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